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Bullying can take many
forms. Sometimes it involves physical harassment i.e. kicking or hitting. Less
visible but no less distressing are name calling, 'sending to Coventry',
exclusion from playground games, or taunting.
Bullying is the deliberate
hurting, threatening or frightening of an individual or group by another
individual or group. It is distinct from the spontaneous upsets and
disagreements, which may happen among children from time to time.
Note: The victim of bullying
may show signs of being unhappy, unduly quiet or weepy, play separately, feel
'ill', and/or not wish to go to school. If these symptoms occur frequently then
the question of bullying should be considered.
If parents see, or are told
about bullying taking place, they should ensure that someone at the school knows
about it. Situations are made far worse, when bullying continues over a period
of time without the school being aware of what is happening. On the other hand,
bullying is quickly stopped when addressed at its onset.
If your child is involved in
bullying, you should reassure him or her and talk about the full scenario. Try
to ascertain the facts of the incident and contact someone at the school as soon
as possible. Do not wait to see if the matter resolves itself.
If pupils see or hear
about bullying taking place, they should speak up and come forward to establish
the truth and end the unpleasantness. To have knowledge of bullying and not to
speak up is to condone this behaviour.
If the school is told
about an incident of bullying, we will address the matter seriously and
sensitively and in co-operation with the parents of the victim. We will seek to
reassure the victim, encourage others to speak up to establish truth and
fairness and make clear that the bully's behaviour is unacceptable. The bully
will be encouraged to see the victim's point of view and if appropriate, be set
a punishment and have his/her parents contacted.
We emphasise the importance
and success of early intervention.
The "Code of Conduct"
is a positive description of the kind of everyday behaviour the school would
expect from the pupils and complements a statement of the school rules. These
expectations of behaviour and rules are discussed regularly with the pupils, and
form a background for the organisation and everyday life of the school. The
points covered include:
The school rules are designed for the safety of the pupils.
Pupils are required to move about the school in an orderly way
The driveway, car park and
huts are out of bounds.
Cycling is not allowed in
the school grounds.
Ball games are allowed on
the playing field only,
Pupils, who remain in
school over lunchtime, are not allowed to leave the school grounds.
Pupils are not allowed to
play with anything that could cause harm to themselves or
others.